Not(e) to Myself

Okey, let me begin with my small confession. 
I DO HAVE PROBLEMS! IT'S OBVIOUS!
I still do not understand why people often say "I'm the one who have the biggest problem in the world. I better die." or else. HELLO! Wake up please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Well yes, we like to use 'IF' word; "If I were you, my life will be so much easier.", "If I do this, I won't regret." and many more IF. As for me, I like to imagine how if I was born in another family? How if the time can be stopped? How if xx? How if xxx?...But it's just imagination. We are not living in fairy tale world and there is no tinker bell will help us to solve our problems. We live in the REAL WORLD and there is no turning back here. Who else will help you except Allah?
Ask Him, ask for His direction and also forgiveness.
Don't be selfish to think that you are the only one who have the complicated bombastic problem in the world.
For me, if I have trouble I will think of my Mom's quotations:
"Maybe what we want is not what we need."
"Keep your positive thinking. Control your mind and don't let evil control it!"
"Accept. Accept. Accept."
It's soo hard for me to keep positive. But,please remember people cannot help you, you're the ONE who can help yourself to be more open. Then you will realize that actually Allah always direct your way